Eat like a human being,
dress up, marry, have children,
get politically active- suffer, abuse,
bear with a headstrong brother, father, son, neighbor, or companion.
Show us these things so we can see that you truly have learned from the philosophers.
—Epictetus, Discourses, 3.21.5-6(resource) Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom