Life is in a constant state of change. And so are we. To get upset by things is to wrongly to assume that they will last. To kick ourselves or blame others is grabbing at the wind. To resent change is to wrongly assume that you have a choice is the matter.

Everything is change. Embrace that. Flow with it.

— Ryan Holiday, The 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living